There’s often a question many parents ask themselves — is it better to travel with children, or take time away as a couple?

It’s a topic that always brings out strong opinions, and if you’re fortunate enough to have children, you’ll likely appreciate both sides. As an older dad, I’ve always leaned towards travelling together — making the most of time with my children, India and Archie, whether that’s overseas or closer to home in the UK.

As Managing Director of Discerning Collection, I’m fortunate to have a portfolio of beautiful properties to choose from, yet we often find ourselves returning to Kalkan in Turkey. It’s an upmarket resort that works brilliantly for both adults and families alike.

For those travelling without children, there are adult-only properties such as the Likya Residence Hotel & Spa and Likya Boutique — both offering a more peaceful, refined setting. The Likya Boutique features rooms with their own private pools, while the Likya Residence enjoys an exceptionally high level of repeat guests year after year.

For families, the Asfiya Hotel — run with genuine warmth by Adem and Sema — is always a favourite, alongside a wide selection of private villas with their own pools. We tend to opt for a three-bedroom villa, though with children aged 8 and 6, they somehow still end up in our room on makeshift beds on the floor.

So whether you’re considering a holiday with the children or a quieter escape as a couple, Kalkan offers the perfect balance — beautiful properties, excellent restaurants, and a relaxed, upmarket atmosphere that makes it easy to return to year after year.

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